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【天策2020双旦嘉年华】我的2020年——四十不惑,四个不惑!
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该死的2020年终于过去了,迎来自己娃儿的本命年2021年牛年(12岁),先向坛子各位老友道一声祝福,望2021年各位身体健康,鸿运当头!% |% U4 U/ s3 I. m7 ^( L
转回去年,年初还在贵州一家待遇不错的企业就职,
" E# S& U3 @. p# Z% Y 2月份疫情肆虐,回家待了几个月,基本上没怎么玩。平时就是上网,做饭,睡觉....
5 W. L; u V4 L9 r 6月份回到公司,由于入不敷出,企业濒临倒闭,
; P; R v+ x5 f$ t 7月份回到家,8月份由于想带孩子出去旅游一圈,从8月初就开始每天赚钱,百家樂连赢十多天,赚了2A多。3 M, ~- ]0 L: n* K
8月底和昔日的情人主动联系我,平时约会玩耍,基本上都没有怎么玩。
0 `+ V5 e2 Y4 k 带孩子外出游玩了一番,花了几千。+ x. l6 P* ]* P, `
9-12月份都是小打小闹,几百一千的存款玩耍,输输赢赢,也没有多大起伏。
1 c* f, {, c8 a. g1 w5 E 总的说来,2020年在菠菜上面打干除尽还是赚了上万块,(除掉平时消费,家用等)也算还好吧!$ h6 a5 f- j5 M* e" s1 [
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不知不觉彩从2003年至今都已经是十七个年头了,还算没有倒下吧。2 u j8 M7 e3 N
前面几年脑壳发热,干了不少蠢事,借高利贷,借网贷,骗亲朋好友的钱拿去菠菜。7 f5 a: e: V* [2 ^' x j
到现在基本上都是众叛亲离,以前的朋友基本就没有联系了,家族亲戚也是不相往来,新生活,各顾各。5 r$ |( s! g; z$ H8 k B
从2018年去贵州工作之后,基本上就没有再去借过钱玩菠菜,平时工资和一些灰色收入就拿来玩一玩,
, b' z0 o3 L' P0 _/ ~) }: H 赢了钱也基本是拿回家里家用,或是网购一些家用必需品,一些大件电器等等。
2 }7 _+ L% R4 L8 d 说得出来的:冰箱一台4000,电脑一台6000,音响一套3500,热水器一台1500,家私一套800....: _; b2 y: ~; T( b
大家赢钱都是为了是自己生活过得更加好,因此买这些东西也是庄家报销,何乐而不为。/ Z6 q3 b( X2 z: |9 d8 Z
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2020年家里出了两件大事:9 {0 G9 k2 i' Q7 \! z: r6 Z! l
1.家中年迈老父亲,重病,从年初2月份,断断续续住院至今,还未痊愈,花费十多万。有几次都差点拿过去了,还好抢救过来!!!!
) n6 l6 w0 c# L% m/ x1 x3 t 万恶之源---糖尿病。奉劝大家千万不要得这个病,这病仅次于癌症,得了糖尿病,并发症巨多,如果控制不好,将是十分恼火的。" `. j0 G3 X9 c
2. 我的大舅舅癌症去世,想当初也是 厅局级干部,"捞了"不少钱,后来被一老女人给“骗”了,一套别墅,几辆车全部都被拿走。) N, G: o! P1 ]; K- L
在他弥留之际紧紧握着我的手,他说不出话,我眼泪不听话的一下子就留下来了。
: N$ t1 C3 a1 W) P 哎!~生老病死,生人也无奈!
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, M' {( k( `8 A- M" X+ U P& Z 2021年孩子也12岁了,马上9月份上初中,从嗷嗷待哺到现在少女样,过得实在是太快了。
$ |6 Z: c9 ^$ u6 n& N3 F/ `1 [ 很怀念以前 孩子小的时候,言听计从,到现在孩子“越走越远”,终归会走入社会,走向成熟。
5 l& k% ?0 O' E, l# d- P a S0 M5 e; P 大家有条件一定要自己带孩子,这样带出来的孩子不会有阁辈带的苦恼,孩子最亲近肯定是带她长大的人。1 H% p/ P' a' Z' M4 G) u5 O: ~
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2021年也走过人生43个年头,人说 四十不惑,什么是不惑,对于我来说有四个不惑。, l5 |2 e. P" j2 I
一:第一个不惑是 人一定要健康。
- T* `" L# T% Q: n8 i 有句老话说得好:一个家庭幸福就是:牢里没有犯人,家中没有病人。就如同老父亲那种生病的痛苦,真是无法形容。+ f0 A0 J2 h, H& T; D% i% n7 E
无论你家财万贯还是事业有成。人到40岁,身体性能随着年纪增大下降,只有保持住身体健康才是最为重要的。
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8 m( H; J3 s( E" L二:第二个不惑是 责任( G$ V! d3 k7 X# R9 k4 c2 |
我自己想得很简单,为老人养老送终,陪伴孩子长大成人。这也是做人的根本。" g$ [; O7 [& i5 I3 f& C
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; b6 R) Q% N% V* h, p- v三:第三个不惑是 自力更生
" b. s# L! Z. ]5 a! @0 ~# d 都到了这年头了,亲情友情都看得很淡了,你有钱你就有亲情友情,否则没人会理会你的,不能一概而论,起码大部分是这样的。只有自食其力才是硬道理!
5 R" a+ P, D6 c2 \2 U+ g7 Q 因此今年自己给自己定下目标,在菠菜和工作中赚点钱。能够有存款六位数,希望能够顺利完成。- J4 O2 C1 k& S J/ P, ~
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A9 c3 J. q4 D9 u四:第四个不惑是 珍惜身边人
% B6 i- h" S; J& h3 m 这么多年的经历告诉我,没有人能够比自己的家人,孩子更为可靠和珍贵。因此要珍惜他们,多关心多体贴,多陪陪他们,过好平淡而幸福的生活。
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写文章确实不是自己的强项,自己的强项还是百家樂....哈哈!老王卖瓜。9 S! Z- N+ I& Y; l5 T
再次祝愿大家 2021年长红!!!!
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