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♞♞博马♞♞波波教你如何修心养性 7 }5 n% \/ m" u
修心：使心灵纯洁4 }# B+ e" C% n& O/ ]
V& l% } V; n" E) X; H 养性：使本性不受损害。通过自我反省体察，使身心达到完美的境界1 `5 E, }' P8 H: h4 R
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不要老是惦念明天的事，也不要总是懊悔昨天发生的事，而把精神集中在今天要干什么上。因为遗憾、悔恨、内疚和难过并不能改变过去，只会使当前的工作难以进行下去。
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我们对远方发生的事无能为力，想也没有用；杞人忧天，徒劳无益；惶惶不安，对于事情毫无帮助。记住自己就是生活在此处此地，而不是遥远的其他地方。. x& \, Y7 b( ~ D5 \* X6 m
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很多人整天所想的就是怎样做好工作，怎样考出好成绩，怎样搞好和领导、同事的关系等等，因而往往容易忽视或者没有心思去观赏美景，聆听悦耳的音乐等等。格式塔疗法强调作为思考基础的“感受”，比起思考本身更为重要。没有感受就无从思考，感受可以调整、丰富你的思考。
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7 ?4 M. `. D" ?4 Q愉快和不愉快是相对的，也是可以相互转化的。因此，人们要有接受不愉快情绪的思想准备。如果一个人成年累月，总是“愉快”、“兴奋”，那反而是不正常现象.& ~6 Y# }% C: H, X* f# N# [
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不要说什么，我若是某某人我就一定会成功。应该从自己的起点做起，充分发挥自己的潜能。不必怨天尤人；要“从我做起，从现在做起”，竭尽全力地发挥自己的才能，做好我能够做的事情。
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修心养性，就是让人心不致动荡不安，达到陶冶情操，平衡心态，事事想得通，顺其自然规律，积极适应环境，把握好自己的情绪，做到控制好自己心情，不生不切实际的妄念。这样人体心情处在心平气和状态下，生理功能平和有序，达到了养生保健，心理平衡，心态良好，这种状态就有利于身心健康。
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在此，波波特此与大家分享修心养性之道，不仅在人际生活中，事业中，而且在进行投注的过程中，也是起到决定性的作用的，人的性格决定以后是否成功，性格不易更改，但是后期的培养却可以改变以后的道路，波波衷心希望大家在日常生活中也能修心养性，找回自己，展现出最好的自己！: {' a8 b7 }2 Y ]3 B) J+ a# o
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